The perfect date – reality or illusion?

By Dr. Dorothea Flogger
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The perfect date - reality or illusion?
The perfect date - reality or illusion?


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The perfect date – is it just a myth or can it actually exist? This question preoccupies many singles who are looking for the great love or an exciting flirt. The idea of a perfect date can vary greatly from person to person. Some prefer a romantic atmosphere, while others seek adventure. However, one thing is for sure: there are certain factors that can make a date perfect.

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Finding the perfect date is an important part of life for many people. It’s about finding someone with whom you feel a connection, share common interests and have a good time. But is the perfect date really possible or just an illusion?

The perfect date can exist!

According to a 2017 University of Kansas study, most people have an idea of what makes the optimal meeting. The researchers surveyed more than 500 participants and found that the perfect date should consist of the following elements:

  1. Good conversation
  2. Common interests
  3. Good mood
  4. Physical attraction
  5. Laughter together
  6. Deeper connection

These elements seem to form a consensus of what most people consider a perfect date. But is it really possible to fulfill all these elements and have a perfect date?

The perfect date - reality or illusion?

The reality is that it is difficult to plan a perfect date because everyone is different and has different preferences. A date may contain all the elements that are considered ideal, but it still may not be perfect for one or both partners.

Do spontaneous dates have more meaning?

It is also important to realize that the best date is not necessarily the best date. There are times when a spontaneous and unexpected date has more meaning than a carefully planned and thought-out meeting.

Professional dating

Examples of a perfect date can be very different. For some people it could be a romantic candlelit dinner, while others would prefer to experience an adrenaline rush during a joint sports activity.

An example of a perfect date is the story of Jim and Pam from the US TV series “The Office”. In one of the most famous episodes of the series, Jim plans to take Pam on a perfect date. He turns the office into a restaurant, puts candles on the desk and prepares a romantic meal. The scene is heartwarming and romantic and shows that the perfect date really can exist if you put the effort into planning it.

The perfect date is a subjective idea

But there are also examples of how a perfect date doesn’t always end happily. Another example from film history is the movie “500 Days of Summer”, in which Tom tries to plan a perfect date with his beloved Summer. He thinks everything is going perfectly until he realizes Summer doesn’t have the same feelings for him. This shows that the perfect date can also be just an illusion and that it is important not to get too attached to this idea.

Overall, the perfect date is a subjective idea that varies from person to person. There are no specific rules or formulas to follow to plan a successful meeting. Instead, it’s about responding to each other’s needs and wants, creating a good mood, and connecting.

In addition, it is important that both partners show interest in each other and are attentive to each other. A study by Professor Arthur Aron of Stony Brook University has shown that sharing personal stories and experiences creates a deeper connection between people. Here, however, it is important that the openness and sharing of information comes from both sides and is not forced by just one person.

Professional dating

Another important aspect of the perfect date is the feeling of security and trust. When both partners feel safe and can trust the other to respect their boundaries, it creates an atmosphere of relaxation and well-being. The partners’ empathy and sensitivity also play an important role here, as they need to empathize with each other’s needs and desires in order to create a safe and trusting environment.

However, it is important to emphasize that the best dating is not a guarantee of a successful relationship. Even if both partners had a wonderful and romantic experience, they still may not be right for each other in the long run. A study by University of Utah psychology professor Samantha Joel shows that people are often guided by their ideas of a perfect relationship rather than the actual qualities of the potential partner.

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In summary, the optimal meeting is a combination of various factors that depend on the personality and needs of the partners. An open and honest conversation, attention and interest in each other, empathy and sensitivity as well as a sense of security and trust are decisive factors here. However, you should always keep in mind that the perfect date does not automatically lead to a successful relationship.

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