That’s why your boyfriend looks after other women

By Valérie Francès-Pecker
Estimated reading time: 3 minutes
That's why your boyfriend looks after other women
That's why your boyfriend looks after other women

Your friend is healthy when he does it

Today we’re talking about a topic that always concerns us women: Why do men look after other women? Do they not want us anymore or what is going on? Don’t worry, as an editor I’ve done some research and in this humorous guide I’ll give you a few reasons why your boyfriend is looking at other women.

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One thing in advance: take it humorously!

Reason #1: It’s the nature of the man

Men are visual creatures, that’s no secret. They like to look at beautiful things and yes, that includes women. They simply can’t help but look when an attractive woman crosses their path.

That's why your boyfriend looks after other women

But that doesn’t mean they love you less or find you less attractive. It’s just a human reaction that all of us know.

Reason No. 2: He is afraid of missing out on something

Imagine you are at a party and suddenly you see a group of pretty women. Your friend is watching them because he is afraid that he will miss something. He may think to himself, “What if I meet one of them and she is the woman of my life?”

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Sure, that’s a bit of an exaggeration, but men are sometimes just afraid of missing opportunities. But don’t worry, if he is really the one for you, he will always choose you.

Reason #3: He wants to make you jealous

Yes, some men are indeed like that. They look after other women to make you jealous. Why they do that? Maybe because they are insecure or because they want attention. But hey, if he really loves you, he won’t need to. So don’t be put off by such games!

That's why your boyfriend looks after other women

Reason #4: It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you anymore

Please do not confuse looking at other women with infidelity. Just because he’s looking at a pretty woman doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you anymore. Men can also just find women beautiful without there being anything more to it.

Reason #5: It can also happen sometimes

Sometimes men just look at other women without thinking about it. It just happens in passing.

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But that doesn’t mean they love you any less or that you are any less attractive. So take a deep breath and stay calm.


Men will always look behind other women from time to time, that probably can’t be avoided. But that doesn’t mean they love you any less or are unfaithful.

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If you feel unsure, talk to your partner about it and find a solution that works for both of you. And very important: Don’t let yourselves be unsettled! If he is the right one, he will always be with you.

I hope I was able to cheer you up a bit and help you see the issue a little more lightly.

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