I felt how women should touch each other
Ha! A few years ago I was in a school for tantra and of course I learned tantra massage there. And why women should touch each other. At that time I still thought I knew everything about sexuality. After all, I had attended the Tantra course, read up and practiced an incredible amount. Potzblitz – that’s how you can be deceived!
Unfiltered emotions merge
Then at some point I was at a “Yonimassage exchange day” in Hesse, more precisely in the Weserbergland. Gewissenruh is the name of the small town. An interesting name. But my conscience certainly had no rest there! It was very exciting. By the way, yoni massage is called massaging the genitals as part of a tantric massage. Often these are given by specially trained Trantra masseuses or even music therapists. For my sexual development these massages were very important, I can even speak of a key experience.
The Tantra massage was so wonderful – tears ran down my face. Yes, I cried during it. Because it just felt good, like this woman who could have easily been my mother or even great aunt. I was put in a position to feel myself for the first time. Now I could really listen inside myself. Things that I had previously only known from stories.
I was able to channel my feelings, to realize my emotional states unfiltered. My voice, my breath and my movement merged into one. Deep inside me, this experience touched me very much.
I guess I didn’t know that much about sex after all
All at once, however, I realized that I didn’t know as much about sexuality as I had assumed. So I decided to start a “pearl gate” training. The “pearl gate” massage builds on the tantric massage. Invented by Nhanga Grunow – and especially for women!
The main focus here is the combination of yoni massage and communication with each other. The masseuse and the massaged bring the touches into harmony, into a perpendicular. With her, the passive woman should use verbal communication to communicate her sensations, what she feels and how she feels it.
In a course for tantric massages I began my journey
What is not all possible with such a kind of massage! Usually we do not know what setting we have here: the “weaker sex” is able to discover and experience their own body and sexuality. Quietly and without stress or pressure. It can even happen that feelings come to the surface that otherwise have little or no place in conventional sexuality.
Boundless joy, fierce anger, icy sadness, but also deep experiences of a spiritual nature can mix into the female emotional world here. The urge to explore can be pursued here: How do I find my way into my desire? What touches does my yoni prefer? Why do I experience as much pleasure even without sexual climax?
Where women should touch each other
As a trainee, however, I learned not only massage techniques. I was also confronted with the exact appearance and functions of the female sexual organs. Vividly I was taught how women can learn squirting, ejaculation. I literally soaked up the new information, reading everything that came between my fingers during this time. So I also encountered the knowledge of how women can best get to know their own sexual needs and how they subsequently communicate them.
That the body can store emotions also and perhaps especially in the genitals was new to me, but still not strange. By means of a special massage technique, these can even be loosened again. Women’s life issues are so closely linked to sexual spirituality that every woman should value her female sexuality as a gift for life.
If problems arise or difficulties arise in the area of sexuality, the still patriarchal taboo takes hold – swinging the moral club vigorously. If the body is not good enough to make a reliable medical diagnosis and there seem to be no measurable causes, women do not dare to ask where help is available.
It is a niche when masseuses, specially trained in therapy for women, take on this important task. For once, differential diagnoses by the medical profession are not called for here.
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