Is an escort lady allowed to fall in love?
As an escort lady I often experience interesting encounters and get to know many different people. Sometimes it’s hard to tell where the line is between a business relationship and a personal one. In this experience report I would like to tell you about a date where I fell in love with one of my clients.
It started like any other appointment. The client had booked me for one night and we met at a fancy hotel. He was an attractive man in his mid-30s with a charming manner and a pleasant charisma. We talked about trivial topics at first and I could quickly tell that we were on the same wavelength. We laughed a lot and had a lot of fun together.
Something was different from the other dates
Then when we went to the room, the real date began. We had great sex and I enjoyed being touched by him. But something was different than usual. I was attracted to him and wanted to spend more time with him. After we got dressed again, we sat together for a long time and talked about our lives and experiences.
At the end of the night he gave me more money than agreed and told me that he would like to see me again. I was surprised, but also thrilled. I had the feeling that there was more between us than just a business relationship. I agreed with him and we arranged to go on a next date.
At our next meeting, it was much the same as before. We had great sex again and spent the night together. But even after that we talked for a long time and I realized how attracted I was to him. I started to miss him outside of our dates and felt like I was in love with him.
I knew that it was not easy to enter into a relationship with a client as an escort. But I could not ignore my feelings. So when he asked me on another date if I could imagine being in a relationship with him, I said yes.
We started a relationship – against all customs
We started a relationship and I realized how different it was to be with him as an escort. It was no longer a business relationship, but a personal one. We spent a lot of time together and got to know each other better and better. I had the feeling that I had finally found the right partner.
Of course, there were also difficulties. I had to quit my job as an escort and we had to get used to life as a couple. But it was worth it. We have been together for over a year now and I am happier than ever.
I learned that it is entirely possible to fall in love with a customer. You just have to go with your feelings and be honest with yourself and the customer. While it can be difficult to build a relationship between an escort and her client, when it works out, it can be a wonderful thing.
In such moments I often had to remind myself that I am a professional service provider, a sex worker and not a private person. But sometimes it was hard to draw that line. Some clients really went out of their way to get to know me and showed me a side of themselves that went beyond just sexual interest. There were men who invited me to theater performances, concerts or exclusive restaurants. Others took me on business trips or spent entire weekends with me in luxury hotels.
However, I always had to keep in mind that these men were paying me and that it was their duty to show me a good time. I was never sure if they were really interested in my personality or if they were just trying to get the best experience for their money.
I was able to make an emotional connection with some men
A few times, however, I was surprised. There were clients who booked me again after our meeting, not because of the sexual experience, but because they really wanted to spend time with me. They told me about their worries and problems, and I suddenly found myself in the role of a listener. I was surprised at how quickly I was able to make an emotional connection with these men, even though I knew it was only a short-term relationship.
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But there were also unpleasant experiences. Some customers treated me disrespectfully and hurtfully. They demanded things of me that I was not willing to do, and some tried to manipulate or threaten me. I had to learn to set my limits and stay away from such customers.
Overall, my experience as an escort was a mixture of positive and negative experiences. I met interesting people, visited breathtaking places and had unforgettable experiences. At the same time, however, I was also confronted with the dark side of the industry and had to learn to respect my own limits and protect myself from unpleasant situations.
I have learned a lot from this experience and I am grateful for the opportunity to work as an escort lady. It taught me to be open and tolerant of people and to adapt to unexpected situations. However, I am also glad that I was able to put this period of my life behind me and concentrate on my future.