You can simply never have enough
Everyone really agrees on that. No matter what sex, inclination or fetish. As with everything in life, there are also sexual experiences that both men and women should have had. Others fall more into the “nice to have” category. Here, Eronite presents ten sexual experiences that everyone should have had at least once.
These are the 10 sexual experiences for your repertoire
The first sex of your life
How could it be otherwise? The first time is something very special. Even if, in retrospect, the first sexual experience is perceived as rather embarrassing and not very satisfying. Losing your virginity is an important step on the path to adulthood. Teenagers eagerly await this day and spend months preparing for defloration.
Adults think back to this moment, usually with a smile. Ignorance, coupled with shyness, had led to many an embarrassing situation. But in retrospect, these circumstances seem rather charming. Especially because each and every one of us felt the same way.
Oral sex – A slippery pleasure
Oral sex is by far one of the most popular game variations. It is therefore only logical that the skillful tongue acrobatics land in second place in this list. Even if everyone thinks of blowjobs first when it comes to oral sex, female satisfaction should also be explicitly mentioned here. Stimulating a woman’s clitoris with the tongue allows her partner to enjoy very pleasurable sexual experiences. Position 69 is of course perfect for this. The man also has the advantage of having an incredibly hot view of her backside while he perfects his tongue skills in the most pleasurable way.
The topic of blisters should not be neglected at this point either. Women can try out different variations of oral satisfaction and include what they and their partner like in their repertoire. Circling with the tongue, sucking, taking the testicles in the mouth – all this can playfully catapult your partner into the seventh erotic heaven. The use of teeth should not be underestimated either.
The partner’s orgasm
Sex is not just about your own sexual experiences and your own satisfaction. Even if this is usually misunderstood at a young age. The sexual climax of the partner as a declared goal is a completely different approach and therefore also another experience.
If you only ever work towards your own satisfaction, you completely lose sight of an important point, because sex involves at least two people. If you value your partner’s satisfaction more than your own orgasm, you are in a position to have real and wonderful sex.
Phone sex: sexual experiences directly in your ear
Good old-fashioned phone sex seems a bit dusty since the rise of the Internet. But wonderful sexual experiences can arise when you concentrate fully on your partner’s voice. It’s best to listen with your eyes closed to the horny dirty talk whispered into your ear by your partner. Dirty talk has always been very cool and opens up previously unknown possibilities, especially on the phone.
Readers of books know that their own imagination is always better than the movie version. It’s the same with phone sex. Dream sex can be experienced in your own imagination, fueled by the horny words of your partner. Completely without the mishaps and mishaps from reality. Phone sex are the hottest fantasies and pure head cinema.
Virtual sex – almost like the real thing
Nowadays, it is impossible to imagine life without this form of erotic play. Camsex, whether with a professional or your own girlfriend, has become completely normal in the age of the internet. This form of eroticism is not everyone’s cup of tea. Older people in particular have a problem with giving themselves over completely to a screen. But virtual sex in particular offers a wide range of possibilities. Above all, the security of your own four walls should be mentioned here. Those who feel completely safe and secure can let go more easily.
Letting yourself go in front of the cam is often easier than doing it in “real” life. Virtual sex therefore offers young people in particular the ideal opportunity to gain their first sexual experiences. Without having to worry about getting the wrong person. If you feel uncomfortable, simply switch off the camera and end the chat. You should definitely try it out at least once.
The SM area offers sexual experiences en masse
Even if many readers initially take a defensive stance. The dark part of eroticism offers an almost infinite number of games and dark sexual experiences. Most people find power games pleasant. So it’s more a question of the degree of hardness.
Here it is simply a matter of trying things out and gaining experience. Anything that pleases both of them is allowed. With SM, the appetite usually comes with eating. In other words, people only discover that they like it when they do it. Quite a few had surprising revelations during their first S&M sex.
The fun of dominance
Power games and living out your own dominance do not necessarily have to lead to S&M sex. Even if this type of play is more likely to be found in the dark area of eroticism. In principle, nobody knows if they like it until they try it for the first time. Of course there are fantasies and daydreams beforehand. But only a self-experiment can clarify whether the expectations can stand up to reality. For some, it will turn out that it should remain a mental movie. Others have sexual experiences that will easily exceed their wildest expectations.
Submissive relinquishment of control
This type of game should also be tried out. Even from people who clearly have a dominant tendency. Because before you hit other people, tie them up or do similar things to them, you should have tested it on your own body. This makes every Dom more sensitive in their choice of punishment. And submissive people can test out whether the fantasies that have been haunting their minds so far are also horny in reality.
It can also simply be the desire to finally be allowed to relinquish control. Whether you’re a stressed-out housewife or the CEO of a company, constantly having to make far-reaching decisions, the outcome of which can be very unpleasant, is not easy. It can be very relieving to simply have to listen to your partner.
Professional sex
Is it okay to pay for sex? This is where opinions differ. For some it’s an absolute no-go, for others it’s part of everyday life. The fact is that people who work eight hours a day become real professionals in their field. This means that whores, escort girls and call boys know tricks that the average fucker may not yet have learned. In other words, it’s a hail of new sexual experiences. In this way, choosing a professional service can help to broaden your own horizons. Therefore, a visit to a whore should at least be mentioned here, even if not all of our readers will be convinced. But they don’t have to.
It only becomes problematic when sex is experienced exclusively in this way and the act is thus degraded to a trade agreement. Being told shortly before orgasm that time is up is a sexual experience that you would rather not have.
The affair, the infidelity and the cheating
Here too, there are, quite rightly, very different points of view. However, the majority of people tend to reject this form of sexual experience. Nevertheless. Everything forbidden has its appeal and exerts a certain fascination. Deliberately doing something wrong or even evil can be fun. A fling gives you a feeling of power, at least in the short term. You can even have two partners, although this is not allowed for others. If the deceived person doesn’t find out about it, it gives you an extra kick, because you think you’re very clever and cunning.
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The other side of the coin is, of course, a guilty conscience. And this point should not be underestimated. Even if it might not gnaw at you too much at the beginning. Negative feelings have the unpleasant habit of becoming more and more powerful over time. Until the feelings of guilt take over your entire thinking. Admittedly, this can also be a helpful experience for life, especially when it comes to growing up. However, we will not discuss at this point whether cheating should therefore be part of personality development.
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