Double violation: breach of trust in a relationship
In the unexpected twists and turns of life, there are events that shock us deeply. One of these events is the story of a young woman who was confronted with the disturbing truth that her boyfriend had a secret relationship with her own mother, the woman caught boyfriend cheating.
Woman catches boyfriend cheating – an inexplicable feeling
Lisa was only 16 years old when she entered her first relationship. Despite the initial infatuation, she couldn’t shake a nagging feeling: Her boyfriend and her mother seemed to have a strikingly close relationship. Her uneasy feeling was reinforced by regular arguments in their relationship, in which Lisa’s mother conspicuously often took her boyfriend’s side. While Lisa started her apprenticeship as a bakery saleswoman, her boyfriend and her mother often stayed home alone together because they were both unemployed.
Doubt and uncertainty
Although Lisa tried to ignore her worries and convince herself that it was just her youthful naiveté, her gut instinct wouldn’t leave her alone. Once, in the middle of work, her anxiety became so overwhelming that she called in sick and rushed home. But to her surprise, she did not find her boyfriend and her mother in the suspected situation.
This only led to more self-doubt and insecurity. It took some time and the separation from her boyfriend for another reason, until she accidentally came across an intimate letter. The letter was from her ex-boyfriend, confessing that her mother gave him what he never got from Lisa.
Confrontation and broken trust
Armed with her ex-boyfriend’s confession, Lisa, now 19, confronted her mother. However, instead of discussing the issue or explaining herself, her mother blocked any discussion and only reacted with anger and disappointment. She accused Lisa of believing her ex-boyfriend more than her. Despite the traumatic experience, Lisa continued to introduce her subsequent partners to her mother. But her mother’s revelation and lack of honesty had irrevocably damaged her relationship with her.
Why do so many women cheat?
Infidelity can happen for a variety of reasons. Some of the commonly cited reasons for infidelity (regardless of gender) are:
- Emotional dissatisfaction: some people look outside their relationship for emotional satisfaction when they cannot find it in their main relationship.
- Sexual dissatisfaction: a need for sexual variety or dissatisfaction with the current partner may be a trigger.
- Affirmation: Some individuals seek external validation to confirm their self-esteem or attractiveness.
- Opportunity: Sometimes infidelity happens simply because the opportunity arises, especially when alcohol or drugs are involved.
- Neglect: A sense of neglect in the current relationship may cause a person to look elsewhere for affection.
- Revenge: In some cases, infidelity can also be used as a means of retaliation if the partner has been unfaithful in the past or has hurt the person in some other way.
- Adventure and excitement: Some seek the thrill of the new or forbidden.
- Personal history: some people have repeated patterns of infidelity due to their own relationship history or childhood.
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