These 10 things scare men in bed
Sex is an important part of a relationship, but there are some things that can put men off in bed. Some of these are obvious, but others are not. In this article we will look at the ten most common factors that can repel men in the bedroom.
Guys don’t like that at all during sex:
1. poor hygiene
Men often have a keen sense of smell, and poor personal hygiene can quickly ruin a relationship. No one wants to have fun in bed with someone who smells unpleasant or is dirty. It is important to shower regularly, wear fresh clothes and practice good personal hygiene to maintain your partner’s attention in the bedroom.
2. do not show initiative
Men like it when their partners are active in bed and take initiatives. If they feel like they have to do all the work, it can quickly lead to boredom and frustration. Women should therefore be open to new things and also make suggestions themselves to make sex life more exciting.
3. talk too much
It’s understandable that some people like to talk and share, but in the bedroom, too much talking can quickly ruin the mood. Men like it when women know what they want and show it to them. But if you’re constantly talking and interrupting the intimacy, it can quickly become a turn-off.
4. boredom in bed
Routine is important in a relationship, but in the bedroom it can quickly become boring if the same thing always happens. Men like it when their partners are creative and adventurous and try new things. That doesn’t mean you always have to do something crazy, but some variety can make your sex life more exciting.
5. bad timing
It is important to coordinate your sex life with your partner and be sure that the timing is right for both of you. Trying to seduce your partner while they are stressed or tired can quickly lead to failure. It is therefore important to pay attention to the needs of the partner and choose the right timing.
6. egoism
It is important to respond to the needs of your partner in bed and not just think about yourself. If you only think about your own needs and don’t take your partner into consideration, it can quickly become a turn-off. Men want to feel that their partners care about them and pay attention to their needs.
7. no physical contact
Men love it when their partners seek close physical contact. However, if you don’t cuddle or otherwise touch each other in any way, it can quickly lead to freezing cold in the bedroom. Men like it when they feel that their partners love and desire them.
8. be unprepared
It’s important to prepare for sex by taking time for foreplay and getting in the mood. Jumping into bed unprepared can quickly lead to discomfort or pain. It is therefore important to take time to prepare the body for intimacy.
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9. too much alcohol
Although a small glass of wine can spice up lovemaking, too much alcohol can have the opposite effect. Men don’t like it when their partners are drunk and can’t control themselves. Alcohol can also affect libido and thus spoil the fun in bed.
10. lack of communication
Communication is crucial for a successful relationship, and this also applies to sex life. Not being open about wants and needs can quickly lead to frustration and dissatisfaction. Men want to feel that their partners trust them and are willing to talk about anything.
Conclusion
Sex life is an important part of a relationship, and there are many factors that can put men off in bed. Poor hygiene, no initiative, too much talking, boredom in bed, bad timing, selfishness, lack of physical contact, lack of preparation, too much alcohol, and lack of communication can all cause sex life to stagnate in a relationship. Therefore, it is important to respond to your partner’s needs and be open to new things to make your sex life more exciting.
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