How to raise (s)a slave?
Many men dream of raising a slave girl. But how do you go about it so that the object of desire also allows itself to be educated and obeys the commands? Unfortunately, most people fail at this task, although it is anything but witchcraft.
Create trust
The essence of any relationship is mutual respect and trust. Especially in the BDSM area this is essential, because you do not only entrust your own body to your counterpart. The submissive part reveals many intimate things about himself. This knowledge can do a lot of damage in the wrong hands.
Not only during a relationship, but especially afterwards, when you might not get along so well anymore. All of these factors must be weighed at the beginning of a relationship. This requires trust. Nothing works without it.
Educate a slave girl: How does it work?
Don’t worry, this question doesn’t make anyone look like a dum-dum. Rather, the question testifies to the fact that the dominant part thinks about his role in advance. And that’s a good thing. The future Dom assumes a lot of responsibility towards his slave. No one should rush headlong into something like this.
So the question of how to raise a slave girl should be clarified together at best. What are the desires, inclinations and preferences? In the same way, however, concerns, fears and taboos should also be discussed. Once both parties have agreed on a basic course, the Dom can begin to educate the slave.
Bureaucracy and formalities
Anyone who begins to study the subject will sooner or later stumble upon the term slave contract. The documents can be downloaded from the relevant sites on the Internet. Of course, these contracts have no legal basis. But they can represent incredible, personal value.
Writing down the key points of a relationship and putting them in the form of a contract can be a real thrill for some. So you have the proof of love of the partner quasi black on white in the drawer and can get it out at any time.
Start gently and develop the right feeling
Nobody has to go from zero to one hundred right away if he wants to educate his slave. Nor should he. Depending on the level of experience of both parties involved, you may be happy to start things off slowly and completely harmlessly. Even uncomplicated commands like “massage me” can escalate to a sexual highlight with the right partner.
If you like, you can soap up in the shower and then apply cream. Through innocuous commands like these, you can develop a first feel for the world of SM. Both for yourself as a Dom and for your partner. How does it feel to say these commands and how does it feel when they are followed? Once you have reflected extensively, the partner should be asked exactly the same questions. Only those who ask will get an answer. If both found the experience stimulating, nothing stands in the way of the games continuing.
What do you want to educate your slave to?
The Dom sets the direction of the slave’s education and this should also be clearly defined. Usually the sub should correspond to the ideal image of the dome. So in most cases submissive, pretty, sexy and above all permanently horny. The prospective slave girls are submissive anyway and usually pretty as well. Educating the slave or maid to be sexy at all times is the first step in many cases.
The language of a slave
Here the slave can be commanded a certain way of speaking, on which the Dom stands. This can be done in a wide variety of ways, depending on the situation. If the couple is and among colleagues, the slave (also called bottom) has to use as many raunchy puns and double entendres as possible. In the circle of her friends she has to praise the outstanding, sexual abilities of her master in the middle of the conversation.
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In doing so, she has to assure everyone present that she has never been so satisfied as by him. If the couple is among themselves, the slave girl switches to a dirty language. Educating a slave to beg “fuck me” in bed belongs to the supreme discipline of every Dom.
Raising a slave girl also means setting slave clothes
To be sexy, of course, also includes the clothes. Educating a slave also means to decide about her daily choice of clothes. Here, the cathedral will move more and more a bit in the direction of permissiveness. Until the initially buttoned-up lady becomes a vamp in hooker clothes.
Train a slave to adopt certain postures
An important point to educate a slave to be sexy is the posture. Many men are into it when the woman has her legs slightly spread while sitting. Or her mouth is always ajar to better show off her lips. There are no limits to the imagination of the cathedral here. Permitted is what pleases. All according to their own preferences. After all, you want to educate your own personal slave girl
A sign of slavery
A symbol that marks the special relationship of the two exists in many relationships. Sadomaso couples are usually a collar. Depending on the conspicuousness, this can be worn by the slave at any time, even in front of other people. A ring, of course, serves the same, symbolic purpose and is not quite as conspicuous (for example, the ring of O). Where a collar, of course, has the advantage that a chain can be attached to it. This hugely emphasizes the ownership within the relationship.
If the relationship has progressed further, the parties involved can also think about a tattoo (for example, a triskele) or piercing as a sign of the connection. Of course, if you don’t want to do this, you can try a chastity belt.
Raise a slave to be horny all the time
Let’s face it, very few women feel like having sex all the time and everywhere. This is where the challenge lies with the cathedral to change this. Here, too, there is no limit to the inventiveness and creativity of the master. So he can instruct that she wear a vibrator in her panties at certain times. He can forbid her to wear underwear at night. He makes her watch porn every other night or she has to write an essay about what turns her on.
In the later course, the pace can become a bit harder. The sex slave gets the homework to practice striptease or go shopping half naked. If all this has not yet led to the desired goal, let the slave masturbate every hour for one minute each. Of course, with orgasm control or even a ban to climax. Until she’s salivating with horniness, drooling and begging. This would then complete a large part, educating the slave.
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