An affair with your ex – will it work again?
An affair with an ex sounds exciting to many men. But can such an affair work at all and is it really a good idea to rehash such stories? Let’s take a look at whether such affairs are fundamentally good and what advantages and disadvantages can result from them.
An affair with your ex: only goulash tastes good reheated?
An affair with a former partner always sounds like rehashing a relationship that ended long ago. Can this work or does the saying that only goulash tastes good when reheated really apply? Various components play an important role here.
First of all, of course, there must be a willingness to at least consider an affair as a possibility in the current relationship. That alone suggests that the current relationship has serious flaws.
Sexually very good compatibility speaks for an affair
What speaks in favor of an affair with an ex, of course, is the very good sexual compatibility with each other. If the relationship has broken down but the sex was phenomenal, it’s easy to understand why some men dream of having an affair with their ex. If the current relationship is not so satisfying in this respect, you can indulge in the desire to have this particularly fulfilling sex again.
If the lady is also not averse to this wish, everything is actually ready for such an affair. There are people who are a perfect match sexually and who are able to satisfy their partner perfectly. Even if you may not be suitable for a relationship together, a purely sexual relationship is a real solution for both parties.
Do you need an affair?
Wouldn’t a separation be more honest? The question naturally arises as to why you want to have an affair and whether this is unfair to your current partner. Basically, it should be noted here that affairs are never a good idea and that it would always be better and more honest to end a relationship instead of burdening it with an affair. Open communication about the fact that you don’t find sex together so fulfilling may also help.
This may sound harsh at first glance, but it can lead to enormous improvements. Because the perception of good sex is very individual and therefore not very meaningful. If you enjoy being with your current partner, you can improve your sex life without having an affair with your ex.
From an affair back into a relationship?
Many people hope that such an affair will be a stepping stone to getting back into a relationship. But this is an illusion that is all too often not fulfilled. After all, there are usually good reasons for a separation. In most cases, it’s the ideas about life that are incompatible. One partner is too clingy, the other partner has time-consuming hobbies and it can quickly happen that a life together doesn’t really fit.
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But what if the sex in the relationship was so good that you don’t want to do without it? If only one of the two ex-partners is single, the thought of having an affair with the ex can of course be tempting. However, it remains questionable whether it is possible to build up another partnership on the basis of sex alone.
An affair with your ex can work, but it doesn’t have to
An affair with your ex-partner can of course work. After all, they have had a more or less long relationship and know each other. Such a constellation can work, especially with physical compatibility. But you should also always bear in mind that by having an affair you are jeopardizing your current relationship and also seeking contact with someone with whom a relationship didn’t work out beforehand.
If you consider all this carefully, you can probably best assess whether and to what extent such an affair with your ex could be an enrichment.
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