Is sex with older women something for you?
Those who associate things like love and sex with a greater age difference often have an older man with a younger woman in their mind’s eye. However, the reverse variant is also often present, as many younger men are attracted to older women and vice versa. This can work very well both in bed and in a committed relationship, as we will see in the following article.
Is that an option for you?
Have you perhaps ever thought about sex or even a relationship with an older woman? The only thing that really helps is to try it out, because Erotik-Insider clarifies that there are numerous younger men who want to gain experience with older women. You should not let yourself be talked into a “mother complex”, because this psychological view of things is more than outdated. Make your own experience and do not listen to others in this case.
The “Younger man and more mature woman” relationship model
The “Younger man and more mature woman” relationship modelThe relationship model of the younger man and the more mature woman goes beyond sexual experiences with each other. This constellation is more common than you think, since it has now arrived in the middle of our society and is fully accepted in most cases – not only Hollywood stars and daily soaps show us.
Mature women have a very special appeal for men of all ages, but especially for younger men. For example, they take great care of themselves and their bodies, which is responsible, among other things, for a very attractive and life-experienced appearance. In addition, they generally have more life experience in many ways; be it in bed, everyday life, work, relationships, etc.
Mature women know what they want
Due to the experiences just described, older women usually know exactly what they want. This also applies not only to the bed, but especially there this aspect plays a major role. They are often very open-minded and interested in different sexual games and practices and rarely prudish. Younger men in particular report that they have been able to learn and enjoy many things in this regard.
Often, mature women are also much better able to deal with typical male shortcomings, as they are a bit ahead of the younger partner in terms of character as well as humanity. Likewise, they are a good deal ahead of younger female competitors in this respect and also in sexual terms. Conflicts and minor disputes are often viewed rather calmly, which is good for personal peace of mind.
And on the sexual level
Younger men and more mature women are on the same level, so to speak, in sexual terms. While men have already passed their zenith at just over 30, women are only just getting started. Young men with the corresponding stamina are therefore very popular with older women in bed and beyond. Because even in everyday life, you can meet at eye level despite the age difference.
In fact, it is often the younger partners who do even more with their partner. Older gentlemen are usually sluggish at this point and don’t want to go to the movies, concerts or the theater quite as much.
Causes
Nature clearly has a hand in the causes of this. For example, scientists found that from a certain age, women’s desire is particularly strong. Libido in women aged 27 to 45 years is more increased than in younger years. Just when the biological clock slowly starts ticking, the desire is usually the greatest. This also makes sense, because nature is all about reproduction.
Whether it’s on a sexual or relationship level, younger men who dream of being with an older woman should jump into the adventure. Stupid sayings from others should be ignored, because everyone should make his own experiences.
What older women often lack
In relationships with younger men, mature women often get what they miss elsewhere. Whether the younger man/older woman combination becomes a successful model may depend on the age difference. A guy over 25 is likely to be out of “apprentice age” and may be intentionally looking for a mature partner because he has had good experiences with older women.
It happens that men of advanced age remain faithful to their prey pattern and continue to give preference to older sex partners. This behavior already deviates a little from the norm. A guy over 55 hooking up with a 70-year-old? This can happen, but it is more of an isolated case. A 30-year-old man with a 40+ woman, on the other hand, hardly stands out in today’s society. In the meantime, there is almost a hype in the media about relationships that are out of the ordinary. For example, the attractive, always top styled “Première Dame” from France: Brigitte Macron. In April 2023, she will turn 70 and will be almost 25 years ahead of her husband Emmanuel.
A mature lady and a younger man have their say
Two people with relevant experience describe their personal experiences on the topic of “sex with older women”. Marion is 58 years old and has been together with Marcel, who is 15 years younger, for 20 years:
“When I was around 20, grandmothers always told me, “Marry an older man, he won’t run away from you so easily!” This message did not catch on with me. I was pretty wild in the 80s, even the AIDS club at the time could hardly slow me down. Even as a teenager, I always had my eye on the longest-haired, softest-looking guys possible, called “softies.” I was a bit chubby and possessed a sensual charisma, as I often heard. Anyway, I had a hard time hitting even with guys who weren’t usually necessarily after older women.
I enjoyed it when I could show a sex partner what you can do in bed. Some got their first blowjob from me. Others were allowed to realize their dream of anal sex with me. I think from 20 to just under 38, I had about 15 lovers who were between five and 18 years younger than me. Throughout, I had good experiences with them, even in longer fixed partnerships. They were affectionate, but not all faithful. They were keen on sex and loved to be pampered.”
Marcel did not really want anything from older women
When I met Marcel, I was just dating a young lad who was noticeably on the verge of leaving: he wanted to study in the USA. I let him go without heartache and turned to Marcel. But he was hard to crack at first, because he didn’t really have anything to do with older women. Over time, however, we became closer and closer in conversations about painting. He knew much more than I did and obviously enjoyed explaining styles and backgrounds to me.
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At some point we ended up in bed, and we both realized that we wanted to stay together. We harmonized sexually simply sensational. To this day, the erotic tension between us has remained, even if we no longer do it quite as excessively as in the early years. Sometimes I’m a little afraid that Marcel will fall in love with a younger girl one day. But who should know better than me that relationships are not for eternity? With now 20 years of partnership, Marcel and I have reached into the pot of luck after all.
“I just couldn’t resist this mature woman!”
This statement comes from Niklas, born in 1995. He fell in love with 42-year-old Italian Raffaela a year ago – and she listened to him after initial hesitation. Soon they plan to look for an apartment together. Niklas tells:
“I’d often heard from my buddies that sex dates with older women were a total bummer. I wasn’t particularly turned on by this, because I’ve always had a preference for very thin blonde girls. Should the others quietly make out with their hot milfs. Yes, and then one night I came face to face with this obviously dyed blonde with exciting curves and a cute accent. But then my opinion changed abruptly. Mature women simply have much more experience and are clearly more sensitive than the young plums who still have no idea what they themselves want and how to fully satisfy a man not only from the body, but also from the head.”
It was at a party in a rather messy kitchen where the few smokers gathered. From the first moment Raffaela made me change my prejudices against older women. With her I saw only beauty, experience and pure sensuality. And the first impression was not deceiving. She is also tender and smart.
Older woman and younger man – it can already fit
These are two examples of the powerful attraction that can come from older women. It’s no secret why mature women are often so irresistible to young guys: they let them feel that they find them hot. When a man realizes that someone is out to get me, it’s not uncommon for him to catch fire. That’s how some younger guys feel when they meet hot older women.
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