Taboo or pleasurable enrichment?
For many couples it is a taboo subject: masturbating in front of your partner. But what is the reason for this? Regular self-love is known to be extremely important. Why not involve your partner in this intimate act? Masturbation is something very intimate. But letting your partner watch you masturbate can lead to unforgettable moments.
Why masturbating in front of your partner is so important
For a long time it was put into people’s heads that masturbation was naughty. Many do not lay hands even at home alone on the couch. At the same time, it is important to devote yourself to your own pleasure every now and then. Masturbation is basically incredibly important for one’s own well-being. Especially for women who do not reach climax through habitual sex. To lend a hand yourself is then extremely practical. Who knows better what really gets a woman going than she does?
Men do it regularly, too, and that’s a good thing. For both sides the pleasurable masturbation brings many advantages. Masturbation improves sleep and good sleep strengthens the immune system. Moreover, this act of passion causes the release of endorphins. Endorphins are happiness hormones that are known to reduce the stress hormone cortisol. So masturbation is healthy and makes you happy. However, satisfying yourself in front of your partner is still unfamiliar territory for many.
It is no longer a secret that men like to watch when women touch each other with pleasure. Whether in a committed relationship or not, having your partner look at each other while you masturbate adds a special kick to the sexual part of life.
Masturbate in front of partner as foreplay
The traditional foreplay many associate with getting rid of each other’s clothes and getting hot with hot kisses and touches. However, this does not have to be the case in general. A pleasurable foreplay is also feasible without physical contact and extremely effective.
The partners undress themselves and there is an important rule: only look, do not touch. Both players enjoy their own lustful touches, which automatically provides the other person with even more pleasure. A short time later, the previously established rule will no longer be able to be observed. Satisfying yourself in front of your partner is thus an ideal introduction to sex.
Masturbation as a guide
If you dare to masturbate in front of your partner, you will benefit in two ways. Not only that this approach increases the pleasure, it can still teach the other person something, because: The partner sees where and how you prefer to touch yourself most effectively.
The lover can watch and then put newly gained knowledge into action. So masturbating in front of your partner can be extremely educational and enrich the relationship.
The correct use of sex toys
As mentioned, the partner can learn fun moves while watching. This also applies to the use of sex toys. In couples who use sex toys only on their own, this often has one cause: the partner does not know how to use the love toy properly. If the lovers show each other how they use the toys themselves, it can be helpful and sexy at the same time. This lesson not only turns you on, but also lowers your inhibitions about using sex toys in the pleasurable act.
Masturbate in front of your partner to get to know each other
Couples who have been together for a long time usually know each other very well. Over the years, people often unknowingly look at each other only fleetingly. It is a normal process that affects many couples. By masturbating in front of your own partner, you give your counterpart the opportunity to look at length. Facial expression, movements, every curve and even skin wrinkles can be examined. Couples get to know each other intensively new and are turned on at the same time.
Get sexual pleasure without a condom
Two people get to know each other during a fun evening and after intense kissing they realize naked in bed: Darn, forgot condoms. Satisfy both in front of each other, this brings several advantages:
Firstly, they eliminate the risk of sexually transmitted diseases as well as unwanted pregnancy. On the other hand, they still reach (joint) sexual climax in an adventurous way. Perfectly solved.
Masturbation to spice up long distance relationships
In long-distance relationships, both partners often suffer from the resulting sex deprivation. This does not have to be. In this situation, it may help to use the popular video chat in a slightly different way. If both partners perform a striptease in front of the camera, that alone is extremely exciting. Virtual masturbation in front of your own partner can take the relationship to a new level. The sexual desire is satisfied and the anticipation of the next reunion increases immeasurably.
When one does not feel like
One is hot, the other has just no head for sex at all? That doesn’t have to mean you go away empty-handed. With masturbation in front of the partner, one’s own desire is satisfied and ideally it awakens the desire in the other. Stressful everyday thoughts evaporate in no time at all at the sight of the naked, excited partner. And if the other person doesn’t feel like it, at least one of them gets his money’s worth.
Masturbating in front of each other turns on
Apart from the fact that masturbating in front of your partner has many benefits for both of you, one single point may suffice: giving a hand yourself while the other watches is simply a turn-on.
Playing with yourself in a fun way stimulates the imagination and creates intimacy and trust. It takes the relationship to a new level. It does not matter whether this has existed for a long time or only recently. The attempt is worthwhile.
Masturbate in front of your partner – lose inhibitions
The reasons for masturbating in front of your partner are clearly diverse and interesting. Once curiosity has been aroused, many people still have one or two questions. Is there anything I need to be aware of? How can any existing inhibitions or fears be eliminated? The whole thing is not as difficult as it seems at first. If couples take into account a few points, they will soon be able to enjoy the exciting pleasure of masturbating with each other.
The right atmosphere
To masturbate in front of your partner, you need not only determination, but also a dose of confidence. It is important to create an atmosphere in which both partners feel comfortable. Dimmed lights in a familiar bedroom can be helpful, as can mood music. Whatever it ends up being, the gist of it is that it loosens up.
Sex toy as a tool
The situation is new and otherwise skillfully used fingers suddenly forget what they have to do. This moment cries out for a tool. A vibrator can facilitate the work enormously and the sight certainly provides tingling thoughts in the partner.
Confidently satisfied
In a time when immense importance is placed on appearance, many are afraid of one thing: how they might appear to others. Thoughts of this kind are not only unnecessary during joint masturbation in front of the partner, but also unjustified. In lustful moments, no one pays attention to details.
There is no correct position here. To get started, it helps to close your eyes. Subsequently, you handle the whole thing as you would on your own.
Masturbating in front of your partner – yes or no?
Masturbating in front of your partner is good for you and ultimately healthy. Couples watching each other lustfully has many benefits for a wide variety of relationships. No move here has to be embarrassing. Pleasurable masturbation is intimate, but intimate clearly also goes in pairs – and as far as onanism is concerned, actually anyway.
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