Only strict mistress or also cuddly?
There is only conjecture about the number of prostitutes in Germany. The figures range from 250,000 to more than 450,000. If their number is also uncertain, it is certain that there are gradations among whores. While the women from the street are at the bottom, there are many highly respected dominatrixes who live a very normal life in private.
Dominas official and dominas private
When talking about dominas, most men have stereotypical ideas. Under a Mistress they imagine a strict woman (Domina means mistress of the house), who wears a provocative corsage made of leather or wetlook and overknee boots or a skin-tight catsuit and is armed with a whip.
She forces her slave to crawl behind her on all fours on a collar and leash. If he is disobedient, he is whipped or locked in a cage. If the slave was good, he may lick the boots of his mistress as a reward. But sex? No dominatrix deigns to have sex with a slave. At most she has a maid that the slave is allowed to fuck at the end of the education lesson (but only if he was very good). So much for the official picture.
What are Dominas like in private?
The question of how Dominas are private, certainly interests many men. Few, however, know the answer to this question. These are men who know Dominas privately. These ladies are just normal women. They live a normal life, have children and quite a few are even in a committed relationship. However, they would never reveal to their customers how Dominas are in private.
In the public eye, Mistresses are very concerned with maintaining their reputation as stern mistresses. After all, that’s why their customers come to them. They want to be degraded, punished and humiliated by a proud woman. Dominas in private, on the other hand, are quite different. You don’t walk around in overknees or a catsuit all day. This would be inconvenient and raise questions from family and neighbors.
Are Dominas also so strict in private?
The answer to this question is clearly no (at least in most cases). Dominas in private are also people. Every person can not always be hard, but also has a need for tenderness. The love life of a mistress with her partner or partner is quite different from the behavior towards a customer. When working in her studio, the Dominatrix wears a mask, so to speak. She presents herself as strict and aloof because that’s what her customers expect of her.
There are also cases where it is the other way around. Many women who work in customer service (waitresses, hostesses, stewardesses and others) are expected to smile and be in a good mood at all times. Customers are not interested in whether and what personal problems they have. Dominas private can be strict, but do not have to be.
Do Dominas like cuddle sex and caresses in private?
This is very likely to be true of many dominatrixes. They clearly separate their work in the domina studio from their private love life. This is also confirmed by another fact. Many men consider dominas as a special kind of whores. But that’s basically not true at all, because they don’t offer sex for money. This means dominas can not live out their desire and passion at work.
If a mistress were to be tempted to have sex with one of her slaves, it would destroy her reputation. Dominas privately, however, also have urges and desires that they want to live out with their partner. There they also long to be stroked or cuddled or need another person to whom they can confide their worries and problems. From their partner Dominas privately even expect that he treats her like a woman and shows her his lust and tenderness. After all, the father of her children is not some paying customer who today expresses his devotion to his mistress and tomorrow goes to another woman.
Dominas private – many are switchers
It is an open secret that many Dominas are private so-called switchers. These are men and women who can be both submissive and dominant, depending on their mood. Not so rare it happens that a woman lets a slave lick her boots in her studio or forces him to drink from the toilet, is submissive at home all at once.
This attitude serves as a counterbalance to the rigor they must display during sessions with their clients. It is often similar with them. It is not uncommon for men who go to dominas to work in positions of responsibility and have great power.
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While this has its advantages, it also means that they often make tough and unpleasant decisions. The sessions with a dominatrix are a balance that helps them come to terms with their feelings. At least for a short time, they do not bear any responsibility, but are absorbed in their role as slaves.
Does a personal relationship work?
This is quite possible, but not easy. Dominas are strong women who are used to getting their way. Your partner must be able to handle it. To lead a relationship with dominas privately works out when the partner radiates a lot of self-confidence.
A Mistress is a strong woman who needs at least once in a while a strong man who takes her in his arms and with whom she can let herself go. Why not a round of flower sex?
Dominas private – very different from the profession
A Dominatrix is a split personality. At work in her studio or in the SM Club she is strict and unapproachable and punishes even the smallest offenses of her slaves harshly. Private mistresses, on the other hand, do not always like it hard, but also have the need for cuddle sex and tenderness. But they can’t live that out with their customers, because they pay them extra to be strict and bossy, to be a real dominatrix.
She satisfies her need for tenderness in private life. Both spheres, work and private life, are strictly separated from each other and cannot be mixed. As a strong woman, a dominatrix needs a strong partner. Then she is happy and balanced. This seems to be the case with many ladies because they have been doing their job for a long time.
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